Safety

Asking someone out should never cost you a friendship — or your privacy. Everything below exists so that the only thing ever revealed is something two people both chose.

The one rule we never break

A pick is never shown unless it is mutual. Not to the person you picked, not to the room owner, not to us in the course of running the product. If you picked someone who didn't pick you, no one will ever know.

The one exception is deliberately narrow: a paid hint can say which group (for example a class year) someone who picked you belongs to — but only when at least three people in the room share that group, and only if they chose to answer the group question. Hints are never made up, and we don't sell them to people with fewer than two admirers.

Adults only

CrushPact is 18+. Everyone confirms their age before joining a room. If several members report that someone in a room is under 18, the room is paused automatically — no one can join or pick until we review it.

Report or block, from inside the room

Open the room and choose Report or block. You can:

• Report a member — for being under 18, harassment, a fake profile or anything else;
• Report the whole room — if the room itself is being used to target someone;
• Block a member — you disappear from each other's lists, any picks between you are cleared, and neither of you can pick the other.

Reports are private. The person you report is not told who reported them.

After a match

A match only means you both said yes in private. Take it at whatever pace feels right. Contact handles are exchanged only if both of you choose to share one. If a match turns uncomfortable, block them — and report it if they cross a line.

Your data, your call

Picks are deleted 30 days after a room reveals. You can delete your whole account at any time from Account → Delete account; it takes effect immediately. Details are in the Privacy Policy.

If someone is in danger

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911. If you're in crisis, you can call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, US). For harassment or abuse that involves a minor, you can report to the NCMEC CyberTipline.

Contact

Safety questions or something we should look at urgently: safety@crushpact.com.